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Know What You Want: Taking Control of Your Life’s Direction

Writer's picture: Zoyda WhighZoyda Whigh

To achieve your desired outcomes in life, it’s essential to have a clear understanding of what you want. Without a well-defined sense of purpose or direction, you risk allowing others to dictate your path, often without even realizing it. When you lack clarity about your goals, you may unconsciously agree to fulfill the ambitions of others, living your life according to their plans instead of your own.


Without a strong personal vision, you become more vulnerable to external influences. Rather than actively pursuing your own objectives, you might find yourself passively conforming to the expectations or desires of others. This can lead to a life where you are not in control, but rather, a facilitator of someone else’s aspirations.


To ensure that you are the one steering your life, it’s important to:

  1. Clarify Your Goals: Take the time to reflect on what you truly want to achieve. Whether in your career, personal life, or relationships, having clear, defined goals will help you maintain focus on your own path.

  2. Set Boundaries: Learn to say no to opportunities or requests that do not align with your objectives. Establishing boundaries is crucial for maintaining control over your time and energy, ensuring they are invested in your own aspirations.

  3. Take Ownership: Make decisions that align with your personal interests and move you closer to your goals. By taking ownership of your choices, you reinforce your control over your life’s direction.

  4. Stay Mindful: Regularly assess whether your actions and decisions are consistent with your true desires. Mindfulness allows you to stay aware of whether you are living for yourself or merely fulfilling the expectations of others.


By knowing what you want and taking deliberate steps toward achieving it, you reclaim control over your life’s trajectory. This empowerment allows you to live a life that is authentically yours, driven by your own goals and aspirations, rather than becoming a means to realize someone else’s plans.

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